*Matha, Pitha, Guru, Deivam* This is simply not the order of worship and respect alone but based upon a profound and beautiful sub-philosophy regarding the hierarchy of punishment and forgiveness in Sanatan Dharma.This perspective explains the nature of their grace and how strict they are when you stray from Dharma *1. Matha (Mother)*– Punishes the Least.A mother’s love is the closest physical representation of unconditional grace.The Philosophy: If you commit a mistake, your mother might scold you, but her capacity to forgive is nearly limitless. She acts out of pure attachment (Moha) and deep maternal instinct.The Forgiveness: Even if you commit a massive blunder against Dharma, a mother is the most likely to shield you, find excuses for you, and forgive you instantly. Her "punishment" is fleeting and mild. *2. Pitha (Father)* – Strict, but ProtectiveThe father represents the bridge between the home and society.The Philosophy: A father cares deeply about your character a...
what r your thoughts on the above diagram showing " Family welfare and happiness" look at this right from the Foundation- what you like in this and what you think can be improved upon and made better! Communication between hysband and wife is the Key! True but sometimes, you will face situations ( either at office or at home) when others remain adamant that Communication however much you try may not happen- you will face such situations in life! Then in that case coming down from your Ego position( u may not even consciously know) alone can solve - there is a subtle *" trade-off"* position between *long term peace & welfare vs Short term wins*. One should be mindful of that situations - in future you may encounter such issues that can arise in your life any time- Valmiki in Ramayana advises reg such Ego positions and both Husband & Wife must exercise caution and resolve thro show of love & affection like that of a father & mother to each other i.e...